I am writing with regard to the article (Gazette, June 14) headlined: “The eight of us can’t go on in our 3-bedroom home”.

The couple have been waiting seven years to move, then why have they got a three-year-old son?

The cramped conditions are obviously self-inflicted.

Don’t have more children if you can’t accommodate them.

Practise self-control or family planning, like the rest of us, if you want to give your kids good living conditions – it’s not difficult nowadays.

The parents are responsible for the discomfort their children may be suffering from.

My husband and I decided early in our marriage we would like 12 children, but we later came to reality and decided we could neither afford them nor house them, so we stopped at a comfortable four.

Val Best
Highwoods Square
Colchester