you will be greatly missed old chap! many a funny nights with you about and good memories, remember to catch me a goat! miss you

I still cant believe your gone. You will be greatly missed and I will always remember all the good times we all had together. Love you B xx

R.I.P bazza ull b missed! u were always there 4 us! we love you erin n flint ****

someone please tell me this aint barry as in scottish barry!!!

yeah toni it is! c y every1s gutted now!

i only spoke to him last nite at about midnight didnt realise it would be the last nite. i am so sorry kayla my thoughts are with you ****

who is this person. r.i.p

this is so bad! surely there should be something on cctv?? thinking of his family

Shocked! RIP Barry :-(

[bold]bold[/bold] RIP Barry x

RIP Barry, you will be missed by a lot of people! But, we had a good time while you were with us! .x.

Can I ask who Barry is??

I don't think it would be fair to identify him publicly in case he has relatives who are unaware. This is, after all, the [bold]world[/bold] wide web, and news travels fast.

RIP Barry :(

This such a sad story. RIP Barry. My heart goes out to his family and friends xxx

RIP Baz

WHAT!!! SHOCKED! REST IN PEACE FELLA LOVE YA LOTS ...Barry 28.3.08 ....my thoughts are with you kayla xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx xxxxxxxx

still hasnt sunk in baz, everyones really shocked. hasnt got any easier telling people. we will all look afta kayla 4 u, everyones sending her their love. all seems like one horrible dream, but its not. sleep tight x

ill be going down to night and laying some flowers.....if any one wants to join me ur more than welcome

shocking.. :( RIP barry

Omg!! my miss u so much!! me cant believe u gone uncle baz!! well bbe u wit da angels now so sleep tight nd member dnt forget us we be wit u soon!!:) loveyou lots missin u loadz x x x x[italic]italic[/italic]

R.I.P Barry, cant believe this has happened..every1 is in shock. u were always there wen i needed a friend and im going to miss u so much. always in my thoughts love u loads xxxxxxxxxxx

cant believe you are gone only spoke to you last night and you were gonna come stay for a bit. Gonna miss you dude always be remembered by everyone no matter what. you were respected and loved by all and will be sorely missed. love u always xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

[bold]bold[/bold] we love u bazz and will miss you lots soz milkie tea see you soon xxx rip bazz xxx :(

we had a lot of laughs and a lot of adventures mate.you will be deeply missed.R.I.P. BAZ

Obviously a popular guy. Did he work in Colchester? How old was he?

oh my god i loved him wish i never left him kayla i am so sorry wish i was with you i should of never left i will be with you all soon **** always in my heart forever donna and steve be strong he is still with us in our hearts [bold]bold[/bold]

CHAP!!!!!!!!! RIP

can i just ask why was he in a white gown & outside at 4.30am.

Hey uncle barry really missin you just wish you were here just hard to think yu are really gone just miss you so much. Love Ali x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x x. Be with you soon mate

missing u so much u shouldn't have gone so soon ill look after ur daughter 4 eva love barry xxxxxxxxxxxxx

sorry u had 2 go so soon wish u were still here every1 is missin u mad and i will always bethinkin of u. lots of love david **** xxx xx x

[quote][bold]tam[/bold] wrote: can i just ask why was he in a white gown & outside at 4.30am. [/quote] if you read the article properly you pould see he was admitted to a&e earlier to why he was in the white gown

I still cant believe your gone hun. Knowing we will never have our little chats again is breaking my heart. Ben is missing you too. R.I.P Chap ****

cant believe im never gonna see that big gorgeous smiley face again kissing me on the head and huggin me so tight i struggeled 2 breath! i miss u giving me the look after flint coz hes your boy lecture! like i promised, i will! were missing u honey ****

something not right as the tyres marks go up the curve across the grass and back round again,like he was bein amied at

Thats what i thinking,no doubt the usual posters with alter egos will inform everyone soon,but pretend to know nothing when the police ask.

I think someone was after him, was he dodgy? where was he from, where did he work?

No he wasnt dodgy in any way at all he was a caring genuine guy please dont make judgements unless you knew my uncle which everyone knows he wasnt.

omg y r people trying 2make this tragedy into something eles let barry rest in peace n keep ur theorys 2urselfs! dont 4get his family n friends r grieving n alis rite he wasnt dodgy he was the most lovely guy he would do anything 4 any1 n would never let u down! hes loved n adored by alot of people!!

I MISS YOU DADDY hopefully ill grow up to have your cheeky smile as ive already got your looks and eyes LOVE YOU DADDY x x x x x

where do i start barry i met u whn i became best friends with marieda which was nearly 9 years ago now . u went throu every horrible relationship with me picked me up whn i was dwn and always came to my rescue whn yet again i got in trouble me n m have done some funny things in the past tht have made u laugh so much . the years u n holly lived near me were the best , we have had our fights but everyone does . i will miss u so much so will kj , so chickaroo till we meet again u sleep tight love u loads xxx

can people stop leave silly message about my ex-husband he has got kids and friends who think the world of him.i know r marriage did not work but i have the best gift u could ever give someone r beautiful baby boy (age 2) and i will never forget your face i look in to r son eyes and i see u look bk at me he is the best part of u and he will grow up knowing that his daddy loved him and cared for him and we will all see the little barry walking around soon when are son grows up sweet dreams

[quote] think someone was after him, was he dodgy? where was he from, where did he work?[/quote] Ive got no idea who this bloke is but he didnt deserve to do like this. Its not fair to judge him if you dont know him. He was obviously loved by a lot of people. No doubt his name and address will be revealed in due course but until then people cant make assumptions about why he died. A little boy has lost his daddy.

Going miss you barry,lots of love lee and sam. x x x x x x x x x x x x x x

i dont know this bloke but he sounds loved, i bet his funerall will b packed. my heart goes out to his friends and family x

This comments page is to comment on the story not leave free condolensces. Try sending a card to the bereaved persons family.

man its breaking my heart to see all the stupid messages. i might not have seen barry for bout a year but i've known him since he first came to colchester he was one of my best mates well more like an older brother actually and he always will be. my heart and thoughts go out to his family. barry you will forever be in my heart i love you man x

gonna miss you big time you was a proper friend who stood by me when i needed someone! a big fella with a massive heart gonna be strange not having you out at nights think many of the goods nights we all had out you was there. gonna remember you forever sweet dreams babes i no ya looking down on us all now. RIP sam k&k x x

I know barry, although a tragic accident, how many children did he have????? He didn't work, lived off the dole and was an alchoholic. Why was he in A&E??? I know someone else who is pregnant with his baby x

[quote][bold]S[/bold] wrote: I know barry, although a tragic accident, how many children did he have????? He didn\\\'t work, lived off the dole and was an alchoholic. Why was he in A&E??? I know someone else who is pregnant with his baby x[/quote] omg the man is dead 4 crist sake will the world let him rest in peace u obviously dont know barry or ur mixed up love coz that aint the barry were talkin bout! n if u had of got the rite barry wota thing 2 rite the day after he died! half of colchester is grieveing 4 barry n the other half r makin up theories n bad mouthing him! if u knew barry ud know already y he was in hospital!

what a great big guy ,iwent through school with barry and he is "who and what" his real friends know . sleep tight barry.

[quote][bold]erin[/bold] wrote: [quote][bold]S[/bold] wrote: I know barry, although a tragic accident, how many children did he have????? He didn\\\'t work, lived off the dole and was an alchoholic. Why was he in A&E??? I know someone else who is pregnant with his baby x[/quote] omg the man is dead 4 crist sake will the world let him rest in peace u obviously dont know barry or ur mixed up love coz that aint the barry were talkin bout! n if u had of got the rite barry wota thing 2 rite the day after he died! half of colchester is grieveing 4 barry n the other half r makin up theories n bad mouthing him! if u knew barry ud know already y he was in hospital![/quote] What is this world coming to!!! I don't know this poor man or his family but whatI do know is that you should be ashamed of your self so called english man and the person above, When a tragic death happens and it is published on sites like this I think you will find that it is generally used for exactly this purpose. The purpose being to leave condolences and nice comments and share memories of the poor souls life, nit for people like you to rock the boat and leave idiotic and insensitive remarks like this, because the victims families do read the comments and in most cases find comfort in KIND words from others... So for everyone who is using this as an excuse just to be nasty just think on,Some people have lost sight of the fact that the poor guy has lost his life and has left behind children who have lost a father and greiving relatives for god's sake have some bloody respect!!! My sympathies are with all of this gentleman's family and friends you have obviously lost someone very dear to you I hope the pain eases in time, It may help you to know there is a website called gone too soon where you can set up a memorial this way people have somewhere they can leave messages and post pictures etc , it really helped me XX

[bold]i am gonna miss u barry, u picked me up when i was down and if i needed to smile or laugh i knew u was just a call away. i am gonna miss u big time tears keep falling and the feeling of loss is so surreal, gonna be one very quiet town without you! you will NEVER be forgotten. RIP babes! one beautiful and loving man a friend to many who was snatched so cruelly from this world love u big fella. x x[/bold]

thanks SF thats basiclly wot i was trying 2 say but was a little angry! n i was quoting wot the person said before not sayin it myself barry was nothin like that hense my anger! and ill let his daughter n family know bout the website n let as many friends know as poss! thanks x

Sorry Erin I hope you didn't think that was aimed at you....It wasn't I don't blame you for being angry I am just a passer bt and the comments have infuriated me whatever happenned to never speak ill of the dead? Once again sorry for your lossx

he was 1 of my fiancees best friends n hes always always no matter wot been there we couldnt of had a better friend! ppl r desperatly grieveing barry was a remarkable man so theyve gotta say good bye how they c fit! even tho im saying goodbye still actually dont believe hes gone he had so many friends n his family adored him! such a shame! i really feel 4 his family x

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the kind thoughts from you all (with the exeption of the few narrow minded )will not be lost up her in barry`s hometown of rothesay thank u all.

If you can keep your head when all about you Are losing theirs and blaming it on you; If you can trust yourself when all men doubt you, But make allowance for their doubting too: If you can wait and not be tired by waiting, Or, being lied about, don't deal in lies, Or being hated don't give way to hating, And yet don't look too good, nor talk too wise; If you can dream---and not make dreams your master; If you can think---and not make thoughts your aim, If you can meet with Triumph and Disaster And treat those two impostors just the same:. If you can bear to hear the truth you've spoken Twisted by knaves to make a trap for fools, Or watch the things you gave your life to, broken, And stoop and build'em up with worn-out tools; If you can make one heap of all your winnings And risk it on one turn of pitch-and-toss, And lose, and start again at your beginnings, And never breathe a word about your loss: If you can force your heart and nerve and sinew To serve your turn long after they are gone, And so hold on when there is nothing in you Except the Will which says to them: "Hold on!" If you can talk with crowds and keep your virtue, Or walk with Kings---nor lose the common touch, If neither foes nor loving friends can hurt you, If all men count with you, but none too much: If you can fill the unforgiving minute With sixty seconds' worth of distance run, Yours is the Earth and everything that's in it, And---which is more---you'll be a Man, my son! by Rudyard Kipling

i know its long but i think its a fitting tribute

The things we did, the things we said Keep coming back to me and make me smile again You showed me how to face the truth Everything that's good in me I owe to you Though the distance that's between us Now may seem to be too far It will never seperate us Deep inside I know you are Never gone, never far In my heart is where you are Always close, everyday Every step along the way Even though for now we've gotta say goodbye I know you will be forever in my life I walk alone these empty streets There is not a second you're not here with me The love you gave, the grace you've shown Will always give me strength and be my cornerstone Somehow you found a way To see the best I have in me As long as time goes on I swear to you that you will be Never gone from me If there's one thing I believe I will see you somewhere down the road again i love you forever and always xXx R.I.P. Barry loved and missed by many. Colchester wil never be the same without you! sleep tight babe! my thoughts go out to his family and friends! xXx

of course colchester will be the same, it will carry on as normal. just like any other person that has died in colchester this week

R.I.P Barry missing you already Buddy. And...... for all you stupid heartless people out there keep yr nasty comments to yourself you lot are very SAD PEOPLE. Anyways Barry R.I.P. ANGEL ****

[quote][bold]sarah[/bold] wrote: of course colchester will be the same, it will carry on as normal. just like any other person that has died in colchester this week[/quote] no acctually 4 those of us that have lost barry colchester will never be the same again to us thats wot we mean!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! !!

R.i.p Barry you will be missed, and never forgoten xxx

Rae & Arthur Clamp (Barry's Mum & Dad)and family would like to thank all contributors to this website. Your messages have been very touching and a great comfort. To those who have posted the negative stuff, we would like to say that you are entitled to your opinions, but this is not really the site to post them. So as Barry would say "What are you crying for chap? Don't cry it will get better" Bye bye. Rae & Arthur Clamp And Family

barry im gunna miss ya so much u was there for me when i needed you most. u always made me laugh with ur random breackfast(can of scrumpy jack of small botle of vodka lol) u will always be in my mind ill never forget ya love you ****[quote]quote[/quote]

[quote][bold]sarah[/bold] wrote: of course colchester will be the same, it will carry on as normal. just like any other person that has died in colchester this week[/quote] You nasty cow. You should be ashamed. The family on this site are using this as a way to express their grief and come to terms. If you don't like it, don't read it.

There will be a memorial cruise for barry this saturday. If anyone needs details please leave a message on the bebo site

barry me and marc will always love u no matter wat. R.I.P hunnie u will be sadly missed by all specially marc as he loved u like a brother love ya marc and mel.

[bold]bold[/bold] sorry you have gone barry old chap rip and dad and rae you are in my thoughts if you need anything get in touch michael

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